missed

Monday, April 2

Last night, Tyson called to say goodnight. We got to talk longer than usual because my mom put Everett to bed and frankly there's a lot that can be said when there's not a wiggly babe in your arms telling you he's all done. Towards the end of our conversation, Tys told me that a week spent away from the two of us was just really too long, that going through my clothes while sorting the laundry was somehow making him love me even more this week, and other sweet stuff that made my heart jump a little.

And this might sound weird or corny to some of you, but it just got me thinking about how nice it is to miss someone and be missed. That's it. Nothing profound. I'm just thankful for that simple human experience we get to have of missing someone. And how lucky I am to have a little part of that someone with me at all times in the form of a beautiful bald head and chubby tummy. Pretty gosh darn lucky.

128 Response to missed

April 02, 2012 5:04 AM

What a sweet sweet post!!!

April 02, 2012 5:11 AM

You make a head scarf look look so fab! And I love the new design!

April 02, 2012 5:12 AM

Aw, that picture is adorable! And what a sweet, hearfelt post. :)

April 02, 2012 5:12 AM

This is so sweet and heartfelt. Thanks for sharing your human experience. :) My husband and I were long distance for many years, and when he would express how much he missed me, as painful as it was, it was so good to know he cared.

xoxo
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April 02, 2012 5:17 AM

You mama are gorgeous and that lil' man is a studmuffin!

April 02, 2012 5:18 AM

You are indeed lucky. :-)

P.S. Those sandals are to die for! Love those!

April 02, 2012 5:20 AM

Beautiful post Sydney - always love reading your lovely words and seeing your pretty pictures.

Megan @ Storybook Love Affair

April 02, 2012 5:25 AM

awwww soo true!! it's a good feeling, as long as we don't have to miss them for too long!!!

April 02, 2012 5:28 AM

so true. and you both look SUPER adorbs. :)

April 02, 2012 5:29 AM

I love the way you put things... it's true, we are lucky to be missed. It means you are loved :)

April 02, 2012 5:32 AM

Aaaaawwww....

April 02, 2012 5:36 AM

It's so true! Love this post...and your son is beyond words adorable!!

Chelsea (www.hautechildinthecity.com)

April 02, 2012 5:44 AM

I love the new blog look - simple and classic :) Also, how true - to be missed and missing someone is a blessing!

April 02, 2012 5:44 AM

I love the shoes, where are they from? You look cool!

April 02, 2012 6:05 AM

This post is so adorable and I know exactly what you mean... you and your husband are so adorable and I hope to have someone tell me that a week apart is too long one day!

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April 02, 2012 6:06 AM

This post is so adorable and I know exactly what you mean... you and your husband are so adorable and I hope to have someone tell me that a week apart is too long one day!

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April 02, 2012 6:13 AM

You are far from corny. You're appreciative. It's refreshing to see someone appreciate things that aren't tangible & that not everyone in the world experiences. Many take thoes things for granted. You are certainly blessed.

BTW. Your nail polish is so cute on your tosies!

April 02, 2012 6:14 AM

How adorable! I love the head wrap. So cute!!

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April 02, 2012 6:17 AM

Too cute! :) i love this photo and completely understand how you feel!

xoxo, jjanga
www.sayhelloandsmile.blogspot.com

April 02, 2012 6:20 AM

Will you do a tutorial about how to tie a head scarf like that? I feel like dry shampoo may have met its match!

April 02, 2012 6:21 AM

Very cute! I love being missed... It's such a special feeling :)

April 02, 2012 6:22 AM

You said it perfectly. My husband and I were long distance while dating and parting was always an emotional time. Now that we are married it's easy to forget those times but when I do recall them I am reminded of how much I appreciate him and how wonderful it is to know I get to see him everyday and crawl into bed with him every night.

April 02, 2012 6:27 AM

i love this. so true. knowing you are missed can be much needed once in a while.

April 02, 2012 6:42 AM

I also just spent a week away from my husband and we felt the same way. A week can feel very long, but it's so, so lovely when it makes you realize all the more how much you love someone! :)

April 02, 2012 6:50 AM

love this post!!! love your writing girl!!

April 02, 2012 7:13 AM

lovely.
it is one thing to miss your spouse but heartbreaking to miss your kiddos.

April 02, 2012 7:13 AM

totally agree with you

April 02, 2012 7:15 AM

adorable!

Bises,
monkeyshines
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April 02, 2012 7:18 AM

This is adorable! Not only are you stylish but your baby is too, chillin in that sling! Love it!!

-Anna

http://thistrendthattrend.com/

April 02, 2012 7:22 AM

It is a great feeling :)
I feel it every week of my life.

Fact: Being in a long distance relationship for 3 years is Touggghhh. But, you really learn to appreciate every second you have together.

Nicole
http://settleinn.blogspot.com/

April 02, 2012 7:25 AM

So sweet.... :)

I hope that I find someone like tyson when the time comes for me :)

April 02, 2012 7:26 AM

Very beautiful and tender image. That baby is lovely.

Nice post!

LV

The Stylistbook | Street Fashion Blog

April 02, 2012 7:35 AM

Aw! I know I would miss my hubby too!

April 02, 2012 7:39 AM

So sweet. And this picture is precious, so adorable!

xo, Yi-chia
Always Maylee

April 02, 2012 7:42 AM

Both Hattie and I can relate! (Long distance boy friends, and all.) Your posts are so sweet and lady, your blog is addicting! You're an inspiration to all bloggers!

xoxo Hattie and the Jet

Hattieandthejets.blogspot.com

April 02, 2012 7:46 AM

I agree. Best feeling in the whole world; well not the missing part, but the part that there's someone that will always be there and you know you're going to see again.

-Amy
http://theblankpagesblog.blogspot.com/

April 02, 2012 7:54 AM

uhh the baby is soooo cute!!! feel loved and missed is one of the best sensations :O
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April 02, 2012 8:09 AM

What a sweet post =-)

April 02, 2012 8:13 AM

adorbs outfit and i love the new blog design!

April 02, 2012 8:17 AM

i adore this outfit! and what a sweet post :)

April 02, 2012 8:18 AM

You're definitely lucky to have such a beautiful little family. I can't wait to have a little person with me every day too :) (some day)
I hope the rest of your time with your parents and siblings is fantastic but that you get to hurry back to your baby daddy soon!
Oh, and I love your head wrap!!

Andrea
Left brain, right brain, pug brain.

April 02, 2012 8:22 AM

I heartily agree. While time spent away from my hubs is really hard, there is something about talking on the phone and trying to put into words how much you miss each other. It's sweet, it's very sweet. xoxo
(oh yes, and that head wrap is awesome. you look so bohemian chic!)

April 02, 2012 8:24 AM

So sweet! And so true... That's gonna be one cute reunion :)

April 02, 2012 8:27 AM

I had a friend who once said "To miss someone is a terrible thing" and it melted my heart to think how he longed to be next to his wife.

What a beautiful baby!

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April 02, 2012 8:29 AM

Sweet post. You look wonderful as a mother...and that little everette, he is SO cute! SO SO SO!

April 02, 2012 8:33 AM

Ok, this is adorable. Thanks for sharing!

April 02, 2012 8:33 AM

what kind of wrap is that? i'm having my first baby anyday now & can't decide on what kind to buy!

April 02, 2012 8:34 AM

What a sweet post. It is wonderful to be missed

April 02, 2012 8:42 AM

What a very sweet post. I agree, it's so nice to know that someone misses us when we're gone. Even if it's just for a day. I love this pic of you and Everett. So cute! That scarf is also super amazing!

Vonae Deyshawn
www.myvirtueplace.com

April 02, 2012 8:53 AM

so, so lucky. what a sweet post.

April 02, 2012 8:57 AM

I totally agree! It's the little stuff...the details...and the simplicity of a beautiful human interaction that make life so sweet.
Kate
www.365til30.com

April 02, 2012 9:10 AM

This is the sweetest thing ever!

April 02, 2012 9:12 AM

so sweet and cute pic :)

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April 02, 2012 9:22 AM

I second Caitlin's question- what kind of wrap is that? I'm overwhelmed with how many there are to choose from!

On another note, my husband travels M-F every week and I couldn't agree with your post more. It's great to miss someone and to be missed... and even greater to be reunited.

April 02, 2012 9:31 AM

too cute and I'm loving the new layout and uber cute buttons.

April 02, 2012 9:35 AM

Awe :) So sweet. I agree it's nice to miss someone. Makes you appreciate them more. You look so cute! I love that outfit!!!
♥Lindsay

April 02, 2012 10:15 AM

Love this post. Thoughtful. Sweet. Genuine. Happy. :)

April 02, 2012 10:16 AM

It's good to miss people sometimes! Reminds you of how much you love them :)

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April 02, 2012 10:17 AM

You are the cutest little mama every!
I love when my husbadn misses me when I go away. They done say, absence makes the hear grow fonder for nothing!!

Kirsten
{travandkirk.blogspot.com}

April 02, 2012 10:18 AM

I love that you are rocking the Moby. I'm taking my daughter on her first flight next week and I'm planning the same thing. Hope it goes well!

Also, you look as cute as ever. :)

April 02, 2012 10:20 AM

as much as i don't like feeling that it's so great to know that your heart is capable of truly loving someone that even when youre gone for a week it hurts a little bit!

i love your head wrap...where is it from?!

April 02, 2012 10:25 AM

It's a love hate thing being away. You miss them like crazy but it makes you love and appreciate them so much more.

April 02, 2012 10:41 AM

you are such a rockin mama..this is like a paparazzi picture where the superstar mom looks so glamorous! loveeeeee it!

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April 02, 2012 10:46 AM

I totally know what you mean and that's so sweet. My hubs and I have spent more time away from each other than normal due to his new job and I've been loving the phone calls of him missing my daughter and I. Add some spark again =)

- Sarah
A Girl In Transit

April 02, 2012 10:47 AM

Agreed. Being human is awesome. That sounds weird, but whatever.

Like your new blog design!

♥Abbey
Along Abbey Road

April 02, 2012 11:14 AM

Love it! That is so sweet :)

April 02, 2012 11:16 AM

Oh no, not weird or corny at all. It is such a comforting feeling!

Katie

April 02, 2012 11:58 AM

No fun when the hubby is out of town :(

Mine travels all the time!

April 02, 2012 12:04 PM

not corny at all! i think missing someone makes seeing them that much sweeter.

you look beautiful!

April 02, 2012 12:09 PM

Sometimes tim apart is a good thing as bad as it is. I always love the things my husband says to me when he misses me!

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April 02, 2012 12:20 PM

oh gosh.

not even close to being corny.
super sweet.



aaaaand your sandals are pretty much amazing.

April 02, 2012 12:37 PM

You do not sound corny at all. It's refreshing to hear someone express gratitude in things that aren't tangible.

You guys are truly blessed.

P.S. Your toe nail polish is adoreable! So springy! :)

April 02, 2012 12:45 PM

Precious post. What kind of baby wrap is that? So hard to find the right one . . .

April 02, 2012 12:46 PM

Such a cute pic! :)

shelbit.blogspot.com

April 02, 2012 12:47 PM

sooo sweet.

honestly, i've found it to be incredibly healthy for my relationship with my hubs to miss each other some... we always try to make sure that we spend time with our families and friends separately... and being apart for a couple of days really makes me value him that much more!!

April 02, 2012 1:05 PM

awww that is so sweet!
And that scarf, omw, too awesome!!

April 02, 2012 1:26 PM

cute sandals! Where are they from? And I love the head scarf and baby wrap. Ev looks so cute.

April 02, 2012 1:28 PM

My hubbys been gone almost 51 weeks. Should be home in less than 4. So excited!!!!!!!

Hayley
www.hayleysworld.com

April 02, 2012 1:54 PM

to miss someone is one thing. to be missed is another. both beautiful things. lovely post! xo

April 02, 2012 1:59 PM

I really needed to hear this today because I'm really missing someone and was sad. But your words make me see the positivity in it and am sad no more! xoxoxooxox
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April 02, 2012 2:17 PM

Well said. It's easy to get so caught up in missing someone, that I forget what a blessing it is to have someone to miss. Thanks for the reminder.

April 02, 2012 2:54 PM

I love that you are rocking the baby wrap. Just be careful though, baby should be higher up on you and his bottom and legs should look more like he is sitting in a chair. With legs hanging like that it can cause his displacement. Keep up the baby wearing though!! Babies love being close to mommy like that!

April 02, 2012 3:12 PM

That is so sweet. I totally get what you mean. My bf has been away for 3 weeks for work!! And I am missing him like crazy, I got that same heart jumping-feeling when he called and said, I just wanted to hear your voice cause I miss you..

April 02, 2012 3:47 PM

As always, you find a way to make me giggle and smile. And I'm thrilled to see another momma rockin' the baby wrap!

I think another poster already mentioned, Baby Boy needs to be lifted up higher and his bottom needs a bit more support so he's more seated than hanging. A good way to judge the height is never have him more than a kiss away from your face. Carrying him higher will also save your back from the mommy-arch. <3

Thank you for sharing your gorgeous family with us!

April 02, 2012 3:52 PM

Love the new look! And the adorable scarf in your hair. :)

XO,
Catherine
FEST

April 02, 2012 5:50 PM

Hot mama with a cuttie! Hes such a stud!

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April 02, 2012 6:05 PM

ohhh!!lovely photograph!! the baby its wonderful!!!
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April 02, 2012 6:15 PM

first off, completely love the new blog design. you have made it to the big leagues, girl!
second, i think this is about the sweetest thing. it is great to be missed. and having a little treasure like baby e around to be with you all the time is so very precious ;)
xo TJ

April 02, 2012 6:26 PM

GIRL. where did you get your pants? please tell me. case.kelli@gmail.com. i am on a quest for long, black, thick skinny leggings/jeggings/jeans that are actually comfortable and extremely form fitting. please let me know. i would be so happy. i somehow just found your blog and i'm so glad i did. love that chunky little babez of yours!

April 02, 2012 6:26 PM

I see some others have posted this already and I hate to rain on such a lovely post but your baby needs to be much higher up in that wrap. There are several tutorials online about proper placement and safe baby wearing. You should be able to kiss his head at all times.

GG
April 02, 2012 7:01 PM

This photo is so sweet and I absolutely love how you are pulling off that scarf!

April 02, 2012 7:06 PM

hey you should post a tutorial on how to pull off a scarf headband!

Yaz
April 02, 2012 7:14 PM

LOVE this post, SO sweet. you have a great guy, you trained him well lol. PLEASE share where you got that scarf, and I 2nd the other person who asked,please make a head wrap tutorial

April 02, 2012 7:36 PM

Awe cute story....!!! you are so beautiful! love this pic-

Xo
Tiffany

www.littlemamanista.blogspot.com

April 02, 2012 8:02 PM

i love that baby wrap. that thing saved me as a new momma. aaahhhh memories.

April 02, 2012 8:35 PM

Your baby wrapped up like he is in a cocoon is soooo cute with his little legs hanging out.

April 02, 2012 8:45 PM

This is so sweet. Isn't it nice to be missed by someone you miss? Love that simple feeling :]

xo. Molly
http://alwaysamrsforeverakidd.blogspot.com

April 02, 2012 8:50 PM

Love is a beautiful thing!

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April 02, 2012 9:10 PM

You look SUPER pretty here with E :)

April 02, 2012 9:23 PM

blog looks great and you look so chic!!! :)))


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April 02, 2012 9:25 PM

That really made my day. My husband just took a new job and he'll be gone a lot. Today is day #5, with ten more to go. I know I miss him, but I also know that he misses our 13 mo. old son more. Tough, but like they say, "Distance makes the heart grow fonder." I sure hope that's true.

xo

April 02, 2012 9:47 PM

Inspiring :)

~Jacy

http://laviedelenore.blogspot.com

April 02, 2012 9:48 PM

gosh darn cute is what that is!
xx

April 02, 2012 10:03 PM

that is such a great feeling :)

April 02, 2012 10:13 PM

oh i love that part about how you have a little part of that someone with you all the time. our babies really ARE half our husbands! how cool is that? when he is gone at work, or off doing something - we still have him in our baby. love it.

April 02, 2012 10:55 PM

love your blog!! And i love your whit ha ha it makes me laugh :)

April 03, 2012 12:41 AM

This picture is so stinkin' cute!!!

Marissa
The Simple Swan
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Meg
April 03, 2012 12:49 AM

oh my gosh. Cutest mom ever.

-meg
mysideispinker.blogspot.com

April 03, 2012 1:33 AM

I don't know if you read all of these comments, but if so, I thought I'd voice my honest opinion and let you know that I liked your old blog format a lot better....I miss it. :(

April 03, 2012 6:11 AM

Such a Lovely Love story :) You look Fabulous and Baby E is growing sooooo fast, he is so adorable!

April 03, 2012 6:15 AM

I just went away on my first solo trip without hubs since we got married and it was crazy how much I missed him! I know exactly what you mean, and how sweet it was to see the missing was mutual. Glad to be back home =) -JB.

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April 03, 2012 8:39 AM

Your husband SORTS THE LAUNDRY? You ARE a lucky woman! ;)

What a sweet post, and you sure look beautiful with that baby tied to you. Your best accessory yet. ;)

April 03, 2012 9:02 AM

Dawww!

April 03, 2012 10:24 AM

aww that is SUCH a sweet post!! I would love to be a fly on the wall in your little adorable family!! Gosh!! I totally know that feeling and it definitely is bitter sweet. so good to know that someone is yearning for you :)

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April 03, 2012 12:50 PM

Idea: A how to on how to tie your scarf like that so you don't look like a pirate or a weirdo, or like you're trying to hard.

You have made it look so cute!! none of the above.
Love,
Suze

April 03, 2012 1:51 PM

I'm sure it has been mentioned by another commentor (but I was not about to read all 116 of them to find out!). In some cultures, it is customary for married couples to spend a significant portion of time apart in order to allow room to miss each other. With that longing comes appreciation for the other!

April 03, 2012 1:51 PM

I'm sure it has been mentioned by another commentor (but I was not about to read all 116 of them to find out!). In some cultures, it is customary for married couples to spend a significant portion of time apart in order to allow room to miss each other. With that longing comes appreciation for the other!

Su
April 03, 2012 4:16 PM

Hi Sidney!!

I'm a huge fan from Portugal and in our contry we call it, SAUDADE. Portuguese is the only language that has a word for it :)

Kisses

Yaz
April 03, 2012 6:12 PM

I forgot to ask,WHERE did you get those aviators????? I LOVE AND NEED those!! Sydney you forgot about us in the description this time, I hope you're reading these comments :)

April 03, 2012 9:56 PM

I love your glasses! Where are they from? I also love all of your posts and enjoy reading about your fam and time as a new mama!

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April 04, 2012 9:46 AM

that IS very sweet! and such a wonderful feeling I agree ;) I hate being apart from the hubs, but it's nice to know we miss eachother when we are. And I love the way you've styled that scarf...I might have to try the head wrappy look thing. b.t.w. thanks for the InPink win...I know there were a couple 100 of us, but thanks for hosting. I was so excited to be one :)

April 04, 2012 1:19 PM

So sweet!

Would you be willing to do a tutorial for the scarf?

April 04, 2012 3:14 PM

Hey Sydney!

You are so adorable! You sure make mommyhood look fabulous. ;) Rock on, mama!

Cheers,
Luna from the Red Pants - http://xoxoLuna.blogspot.com

April 04, 2012 3:38 PM

Sydney- your blog is part of my daily routine and your creative voice is so real and heartfelt!

Brooke

Www.jellybeanandus.blogspot.com

April 05, 2012 5:35 AM

you look like the coolest most fashion -savvy mom we've ever seen

xxx

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April 05, 2012 10:40 AM

haha! this is adorable! best mommy accessory EVER!

April 05, 2012 11:25 PM

beautiful processing...love :)

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