Making Up

Thursday, October 7

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Shoes: Charlotte Russe, Knee Socks: Gap, Skirt: Banana Republic, Button Up: F21, Blazer: Nordstrom, Belt: Thrifted, Bag: F21
This is what I wore. Blah Blah Blah ...moving on.

Sometimes husband and I have fights. {Husband likes to call them discussions} Sometimes they are long; sometimes they are not. Last night we had a discussion that lasted for a half hour. I was timing it. This is what I do when I ask husband a question and it is taking him a long time to answer. And sometimes it takes husband a looong time to answer my questions. Long story short. After husband had answered my question. And after that half hour discussion, we made up. And making-up was really, really good. So sometimes, in my compex and female-minded inner self, I wonder if discussions are really a good thing. Cause even though they’re like the worst things ever while they’re happening, it’s almost like our spark and our love for each other is even better afterward. Is that the same thing as saying you like fights? Cause I don't. I just think that sometimes {and that's a very small sometimes} we need them. To remind ourselves of just how good it is when we're on the same page again. Does that make any sense?

22 Response to Making Up

October 07, 2010 8:00 PM

Yes it makes perfect sense

And reading snippets of your life is just delightful

October 07, 2010 8:50 PM

very much makes sense!
frustration/anger/etc. is a form of passion..
what is life without passion?!

October 07, 2010 8:53 PM

Okay, so first, he probably started the fight because of what you were wearing, on account of the likelihood of you making out...I mean up.

Second, thanks for saying I make you laugh. You are as kind as you are lovely.

October 07, 2010 9:21 PM

Yeah, it makes sense. It makes you appreciate, fo'shore ;)

YEs I love this look and am digging those socks - work!!

October 07, 2010 9:38 PM

total sense. it seriously is so good to for you to, to feel those different emotions. its healthy for ya...what would life be like if you only had one. ;)

ps. i want all your clothes. and your cute skinny bod. you dress so cute. have you seen gossip girls. i watch it just for the clothes. you should have a peek, you'd die at their awesomeness.

October 07, 2010 9:42 PM

Mos def...without rain, how would we know how amazing the sunshine is?

Super cute outfit, super cute you.

xoxo,
~O~

October 07, 2010 11:33 PM

perfect sense. i hate discussions too...but it's always better AFTER!

October 08, 2010 3:46 AM

I like how you wear the belt!

October 08, 2010 8:13 AM

I just bought knee socks like that is a cream color to wear with my boots...not sure if I could pull off the look you're rocking-but rock it you do! I think I need to stop holding grudges after "discussions" because I'm missing out on the good make up sesh! Boo for my stubborness.

October 08, 2010 11:02 AM

ah youre so cute! i love your style!

October 11, 2010 2:30 AM

Great look.
Like your socks :)

October 15, 2010 4:20 PM

I want that skirt.

Purple is my favorite color.

Here I am wondering if I can pull off a nice skirt like that and a blazer.

I think I need to go shopping.

Colleen
http://scrapandrun.blogspot.com/

October 21, 2010 8:53 AM

Sydney, I am so so so glad I found your blog through Bloglovin'. You are so pretty & confident and you & your hubby's relationship is so positive and inspiring. I want to give you both hugs.

I LOVE this outfit. I have a purple skirt very much like yours and have been looking for creative ways to wear it. Thanks for the peek into your weardrobe.

xoxo
Sami

January 24, 2011 3:33 PM

I know EXACTLY what you mean by the fighting thing!! You feel more understanding of each other and it makes your relationship stronger. I think there is purpose for them on this life...

February 07, 2011 3:10 PM

I couldn't agree more. And you are just the cutest little thing.

February 07, 2011 4:55 PM

I hate the discussions. My boyfriend sometimes takes a SUPER long time to answer my question like the "awkward moment of silence" type of long, but not saying it's awkward, it just takes him FOREVER to answer. Then I get frustrated with him taking his sweet time to answer. I'm glad I'm not alone. And the making up part is the best.

Just Better Together

February 07, 2011 8:42 PM

I always think of "discussions" as an essentail part of being a passionate couple. And I think that the times when things aren't perfect, makes you appreciate all of the times when things are.

February 10, 2011 3:18 AM

Love it! I feel the same way :)))

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February 12, 2011 12:48 PM

Girl you have THE style!

March 25, 2011 1:29 PM

Love it! I feel the same way :)))

http://single-unsingle.blogspot.com

March 25, 2011 1:29 PM

I couldn't agree more. And you are just the cutest little thing.

March 25, 2011 1:29 PM

Great look.
Like your socks :)

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