Making Up

Thursday, October 7

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Shoes: Charlotte Russe, Knee Socks: Gap, Skirt: Banana Republic, Button Up: F21, Blazer: Nordstrom, Belt: Thrifted, Bag: F21
This is what I wore. Blah Blah Blah ...moving on.

Sometimes husband and I have fights. {Husband likes to call them discussions} Sometimes they are long; sometimes they are not. Last night we had a discussion that lasted for a half hour. I was timing it. This is what I do when I ask husband a question and it is taking him a long time to answer. And sometimes it takes husband a looong time to answer my questions. Long story short. After husband had answered my question. And after that half hour discussion, we made up. And making-up was really, really good. So sometimes, in my compex and female-minded inner self, I wonder if discussions are really a good thing. Cause even though they’re like the worst things ever while they’re happening, it’s almost like our spark and our love for each other is even better afterward. Is that the same thing as saying you like fights? Cause I don't. I just think that sometimes {and that's a very small sometimes} we need them. To remind ourselves of just how good it is when we're on the same page again. Does that make any sense?

22 comments:

Johanna said...

Yes it makes perfect sense

And reading snippets of your life is just delightful

-Sam I Am- said...

very much makes sense!
frustration/anger/etc. is a form of passion..
what is life without passion?!

Lisa said...

Okay, so first, he probably started the fight because of what you were wearing, on account of the likelihood of you making out...I mean up.

Second, thanks for saying I make you laugh. You are as kind as you are lovely.

A.Co said...

Yeah, it makes sense. It makes you appreciate, fo'shore ;)

YEs I love this look and am digging those socks - work!!

n.davis said...

total sense. it seriously is so good to for you to, to feel those different emotions. its healthy for ya...what would life be like if you only had one. ;)

ps. i want all your clothes. and your cute skinny bod. you dress so cute. have you seen gossip girls. i watch it just for the clothes. you should have a peek, you'd die at their awesomeness.

406 Olivia said...

Mos def...without rain, how would we know how amazing the sunshine is?

Super cute outfit, super cute you.

xoxo,
~O~

anna said...

perfect sense. i hate discussions too...but it's always better AFTER!

The Breakfast Lover said...

I like how you wear the belt!

Heather said...

I just bought knee socks like that is a cream color to wear with my boots...not sure if I could pull off the look you're rocking-but rock it you do! I think I need to stop holding grudges after "discussions" because I'm missing out on the good make up sesh! Boo for my stubborness.

Alicia said...

ah youre so cute! i love your style!

TheMen'sSide said...

Great look.
Like your socks :)

Colleen said...

I want that skirt.

Purple is my favorite color.

Here I am wondering if I can pull off a nice skirt like that and a blazer.

I think I need to go shopping.

Colleen
http://scrapandrun.blogspot.com/

Sami said...

Sydney, I am so so so glad I found your blog through Bloglovin'. You are so pretty & confident and you & your hubby's relationship is so positive and inspiring. I want to give you both hugs.

I LOVE this outfit. I have a purple skirt very much like yours and have been looking for creative ways to wear it. Thanks for the peek into your weardrobe.

xoxo
Sami

AshleyMarie said...

I know EXACTLY what you mean by the fighting thing!! You feel more understanding of each other and it makes your relationship stronger. I think there is purpose for them on this life...

kelseywilliams said...

I couldn't agree more. And you are just the cutest little thing.

Justine said...

I hate the discussions. My boyfriend sometimes takes a SUPER long time to answer my question like the "awkward moment of silence" type of long, but not saying it's awkward, it just takes him FOREVER to answer. Then I get frustrated with him taking his sweet time to answer. I'm glad I'm not alone. And the making up part is the best.

Just Better Together

Popcorn, Pugs & Peonies said...

I always think of "discussions" as an essentail part of being a passionate couple. And I think that the times when things aren't perfect, makes you appreciate all of the times when things are.

Single Unsingle said...

Love it! I feel the same way :)))

http://single-unsingle.blogspot.com

Λαμπρινή said...

Girl you have THE style!

Single Unsingle said...

Love it! I feel the same way :)))

http://single-unsingle.blogspot.com

kelseywilliams said...

I couldn't agree more. And you are just the cutest little thing.

TheMen'sSide said...

Great look.
Like your socks :)

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